For Dass, witnessing the presence of simple being, of witnessing the spaciousness of what is, is the key to helping those approaching death. Dying to self in such an instance, it seems, is truly the process of dying. It is the awakening to the eternal life of what this moment is.
"For you to be of any use to someone who is dying," Dass notes, "there is one simple rule: you work on yourself, you don't work on the other person."
"Every moment of your life, once you understand the purpose of it," he points out, "is your vehicle for awakening. This moment is your vehicle for awakening. If you are uncomfortable at this moment, okay. You are uncomfortable. Allow it. If you're fascinated, be fascinated. Allow it."
It is through being present for the person making the greatest transition, that one allows that person the freedom to be present to the whole process.